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{great love stories № 15 | spencer tracy & katharine hepburn}

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Each and every great love story is unique. Though the message of true, passionate, undying love is constant, the tale of how this is reached is undoubtedly individual, and there is most certainly no ‘right or wrong’. Some love stories, perhaps, at the time, do not conform to what society describes as a ‘proper’ relationship — but years later, while looking back at the details and circumstance, it is discovered to be an undeniably great love story . . .

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The romance of Spencer Tracy & Katharine Hepburn is one such story. Never confirmed publicly until years after Spencer’s death, their romance was an affair — but what makes it truly special is the fact that is spanned 27 years.

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Spencer Tracy was the man of the moment — a top paid, much sought-after Hollywood actor. He was a terrifically hard worker — throughout his entire career making 75 films — and also a terrifically hard ‘player’. He enjoyed frequent nights out on the town and would never turn down a dry martini. It was during the filming of Woman of the Year that he met, who would ultimately be his soul mate, Katharine Hepburn.

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Katharine was unlike any other actress of the time: she wore pants before they became fashionable, said exactly what she felt, and kept her private life just that — private. She was seen as unconventional and avant-garde, and became the epitome of the ‘modern woman’.

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I have not lived as a woman. I have lived as a man. I’ve just done what I damn well wanted to, and I’ve made enough money to support myself, and ain’t afraid of being alone.” –Katharine Hepburn

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At their introduction on the set of Woman of the Year, Katharine famously quipped, “I fear I may be too tall for you, Mr. Tracy.” To which the film director, George Stevens, quickly retorted, “Don’t worry, he’ll soon cut you down to size.”

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I think most of the people involved in any art always secretly wonder whether they are really there because they’re good or there because they’re lucky.” –Katharine Hepburn

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Perhaps it was this amicable beginning which lead them to immediately become so fond of each other — within one week they were calling each other ‘Spence’ & ‘Kate’, and would eat their lunch exclusively together in the parking lot of the studio, holding hands and talking and laughing. Though never discussed, the cast and crew knew to let them be — this was their private time together.

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Although their bond was instantly recognizable, Spencer, however, was married to actress Louise Treadwell, and despite a public and mutual ‘trial separation’, he refused to confirm the affair, and as a devout Catholic, did not officially divorce Louise, despite their long estrangement.

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I’ve been loved, and I’ve been in love. There’s a big difference.” — Katharine Hepburn


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Though their relationship was never confirmed, they were announced as a ‘couple’ by the media, and the public adored them. Careful never to be photographed together, except for promotional film photographs, they always stood steadfast by their statement that they were not romantically linked — but the sheer fact that they made nine films together, and the very obvious chemistry between them in each and every one, kept the world in doubt of their claims.

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Life can be wildly tragic at times, and I’ve had my share. But whatever happens to you, you have to keep a slightly comic attitude. In the final analysis, you have got not to forget to laugh.” –Katharine Hepburn

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Above, in the film, “Woman of the Year”, 1942

In 1963, after years of partying, drinking and smoking, Spencer was hospitalized following a ‘severe attack of breathlessness’. After his release from hospital, Katharine moved into his house and cared for him around the clock. Over the next few years, his health improved and declined like a rollercoaster, but during a notably ‘better’ time in 1967, he was able to make his last film with Katharine, Guess Who’s Coming For Dinner. On June 10th, 1967, 17 days after filming completed, Spencer died in the early hours of the morning while making himself a cup of tea. In her autobiography, released many years later, Katharine described of the night, “Just as I was about to give [the door] a push, there was a sound of a cup smashing to the floor—then clump—a loud clump.”

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Out of respect for Spencer & Louise’s two children, and for the fact that the two were legally still married, despite the many years of separation, and also, in an effort to not draw any negative media attention at a time of such sorrow, Katharine did not attend Spencer’s funeral service. However, she would later mention that she did follow the hearse on a six-mile journey through the streets of Los Angles, pulling away just as it arrived at the church, and whispering quietly “Goodbye, friend — here is where I leave you.”

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I loved Spencer Tracy. I would have done anything for him.” –Katharine Hepburn

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It is a great love story such as this that does not need to be spoken of, does not need words, and can never truly, no matter how many times one tries, be denied. Most certainly not conventional or traditional, this great love affair is a testament to the power of true love and the notion that, once one has crossed paths with one’s soul mate, the force of that encounter may make it impossible not to be swept completely and utterly away . . .

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Love is nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only with what you are expecting to give, which is everything.” –Katharine Hepburn

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You can’t change the music of your soul.” –Katharine Hepburn

Joey

previously

* great love stories № 01 : grace kelly & prince rainer III of monaco
* great love stories № 02 : nacho figueras & delfina blaquier
* great love stories № 03 : shah jahan & mumtaz mahal
* great love stories № 04 : elizabeth taylor & richard burton
* great love stories № 05 : prince william & kate middleton
* great love stories № 06 : audrey hepburn & robert wolders
* great love stories № 07 : napoleon bonaparte & maria walewska
* great love stories № 08 : john f. kennedy jr. & carolyn bessette
* great love stories № 09 : paul newman & joanne woodward
* great love stories № 10 : ricky & ralph lauren
* great love stories № 11 : frank sinatra & ava gardner

* great love stories № 12 : diana & reed vreeland
* great love stories № 13 : humphrey bogart & lauren bacall

* great love stories № 14 : david & victoria beckham


“Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had better bloody well find some way that’s going to be interesting. And you don’t do that by sitting around.”
–Katharine Hepburn


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Inspired by film noir, F. Scott Fitzgerald novels & the thought of a summer spent in Paris, this high tea connoisseur enjoys photography & designing & making her own clothes. Joey has been buying fashion, wedding & interior design magazines since a wonderfully young age, and would spend hours browsing through their glossy pages making ‘inspirational’ scrapbooks. Never spotted without high heels, a sketchpad, a pop of pink lipstick & a strong coffee— Joey adores great love stories, chandeliers, crème brûlée, the French countryside & sequins & sparkles & her long time sweetheart— the love of her life whose kisses still give her butterflies …
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14 Notes
  • Thanks for posting this. They are my favorite! They had such amazing chemistry.

  • I really like this! I”m a new follower and can’t wait to catch up on the other love stories you’ve done. I love a little lesson in culture & history.

    Cheers, Elizabeth of The Corner Apartment

  • Love the movies they had together! Just lovely! :)
    Have a wonderful day!

  • Wow, I didn’t know about them. What a great love story.

  • Thank you for sharing this gorgeous post. Katharine Hepburn. She is my all-time favorite artist. Her movies will live on forever, and I love this pair together.
    Have a great weekend.
    Teresa
    xoxo

  • A class act all the way.
    Lovely post…I’ll go back and read your others on great love stories!

  • I love pleats! they’re so vintage!

    Sydney

  • Oh my word, the quote “You can’t change the music of your soul” was on my mirror for years. I have always admired KH. Loved that she was just simply who she was and didn’t give a damn who thought what. And I hate dresses and love pants. A favorite post!

  • Such an enchanting love story between Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy. I adore your whole series of ‘Great Love Stories’ and am delighted to link you posts for my brides to see. Can’t wait for the next installment
    Karen Willis Holmes

    http://www.facebook.com/KarenWillisHolmesBridal
    http://www.karenwillisholmes.com.au/blog

  • I have been following your blog for over a year now and I’ve fallen in love with every part of it, but this part, the love stories, add a new type of “special” to it. I find myself sighing after everyone of them…I Love it! Can’t wait to see who will be the next pair of lovers next week….

  • isa — so very lovely to hear! & thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful note — we adore working on the series, and are delighted you’re enjoying it so xo

  • A marvellous love story!

    ~ Clare x

  • Anonymous said...

    A few weeks after this post was published, I found a letter on Letters of Note written by Hepburn to Tracy several years after his death. In it she described his insomnia and restlessness in life and how she thought that he was such a great actor because he felt that he needed to escape himself. I would recommend it highly, because it is a very touching letter.

    I have to say that out of all the love stories shared by Joey, this one is one of my favorites.

  • Fantastic!!! They were lucky to have met.

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